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The Ignition Pattern quiz

How does your desire actually work?

Some people want first. Others want once things begin. Some ignite at a glance. Others need the right conditions. Find out how yours starts, what speeds it up, what shuts it down, and who leads.
Takes 6 minutes · Free result

Informed by the dual control model of sexual response, a research framework that describes desire as a balance between an accelerator and a set of brakes. A self-reflection tool, not a clinical assessment. 18+ only.

What you’ll find out

Your start style

Whether desire tends to arrive first, or show up once connection begins.

Your accelerator and brakes

How strongly you respond to what draws you in, and to what switches you off.

How you fit together

Take it as a couple and see where your patterns click, where they clash, and why.

Before you start

This quiz is for adults

It asks about attraction, desire and intimacy. Nothing explicit, but it is written for people 18 and over.

I’m under 18
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How true is this for you?

Answer for how you usually are, not how you think you should be.

Your Ignition Pattern

Scores are relative to the answer scale (0–100), not to other people.

Your full report

Full report

Your full report is $12.

A one-time purchase. Written for your pattern and personalised with your scores. About 700 words, in plain language you can share with a partner.

  • How your desire starts
  • What fuels it
  • What shuts it down
  • How you lead or follow, with your lead score
  • What you need from a partner
  • Friction points to watch for
  • Five practical next steps

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